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Gay marriage

Posted: October 7, 2012 - 5:24pm

I am a heterosexual, devout Christian, and I feel the community needs to discuss and understand the upcoming vote to ban marriage between couples who are of the same gender.

In my youth, homosexuality was not a visible “problem”...it was not openly discussed and the gays of my small farm community remained either closeted, isolated, or they simply disappeared to large cities, or some foreign country. Other gay people have confided stories of total family rejection, told never to return or contact family members. The churches were especially unforgiving. This often forced people to live tormented, conflicted lives, rejected by our religion and our communities. Some tried heterosexual marriages, with disastrous results. Those that were “outed” lost jobs and were disgraced. Suicide rates, of course, were increased. Truly, the suffering of these unfortunate souls was enormous. To my shame, the rest of us mostly were silent as this diaspora occurred.

Homosexuality, however, is not a disease, or a mental illness. It is not a profoundly difficult path that some choose. It is simply a difference that is deeply defined in a group of people, very early in their life.

Although Jesus said nothing about homosexuality, He was clear on our duty to love and be compassionate. “We” were told not to fall into religiosity, but to become the “Good Samaritan.” Empowered Christians have changed the world in areas of race, slavery and women’s rights...these radical changes have slowly evolved from the constant urging of the Holy Spirit in our lives, not from precise biblical references.

I can already hear other Christians waggle their finger and cry “love the person, hate the sin” and “go and sin no more.” “We are accepting and loving, but cannot be affirming.” This “loving” rejects literally the deep soul of this person! We cannot continue to drive them from our churches and communities and see them later return ill, defeated, ruined, and without God.

Please vote instead for their healthy inclusion into our community and state, where they have access to the joy of a committed marriage. For 50 years, I have seen the horrible consequences of the other choice. Please do not vote for the continuation of such a culture. It is not the way of Jesus.

Charles Benson

Brainerd

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sadiemarriedlady
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sadiemarriedlady 10/07/12 - 05:44 pm
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Sorry,

no can do, marriage is between a man and a woman.
If you want to have a civil union, fine, go for it.
Marriage is what is has been for the opposite sex. Otherwise, it is named something else.

You are living in your past, families and friends are more accepting now. That is not to say all families and friends are, but most are.

stanJames
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stanJames 10/07/12 - 09:31 pm
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mar4riage equality for gay people

tks for your nice comment re CUs Saliemarried lady. But pls let me add some marriage history

Originally Marriage was polygamous and many kings eg Solomon had hundreds of wives

Women were sold for a dowry to a man they never had met to cement tribal and business ties

The women were property and the man could divorce them by saying so but the woman was stuck with the man

In the USA marriage was for whites only, justified as protecting the sanctity of marriage.

It wasnt until 1967 that we finally over came laws in many states (at one time 41 or the then 48 that banned marriage of inter-racial couples, justified as protecting the sanctity of the white race

Civil unions are just a at best second class citizenship. Marriage is recongnized universally.

Big point - this is about civil law marriage RIGHTS, not religious RITES. Churches are protected by amendment 1 to the USA constituion that prevents anyone from holding a church liable for refusing to do any ceremony or recognize anything they do not want to recognize

example - last summer in the deep south a couple churches refused to do a marriage ceremony. In one case for an inter-racial couple, in the other case for a black couple. As lurid as this sounds, there is nothing that anyone can do re the churhes, the couples simply got married under civil law by justices of the peace.

Marriage for gay people simply supports the institution of marriage.

Which btw is being wrecked by str8 people with their 50% divorce rate

we should be supporting all couples who want to protect the legal institution of marriage

Please think on this one.

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 10/07/12 - 10:03 pm
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Wow,

can some other id,ot translate that for us please?

muehlbau
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muehlbau 10/07/12 - 10:08 pm
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Sigh...

First, Solomon's version of marriage was not the "original" version of marriage, nor was it typical. Polygamy has historically been reserved for royalty, not for the hoi polloi, for obvious reasons, it takes tremendous resources to even consider trying to care for multiple spouses and most people have their hands full with one.

Second, it's unclear what you think you are proving by bringing up dowries, but clearly there are many instances from the past, particularly in the case of people with little or no resources where no dowry was provided and yet the woman married.

Third, divorce is something Jesus opposed, as do many people who oppose redefining marriage, so how does that argue for homosexuals claiming marriage rights?

Fourth, if you are familiar with the court cases that struck down miscegenation laws, you know that the basis for striking them down was that they were discriminatory eugenics laws because they prevented people of different races from PROCREATING. That's one thing that never happens with homosexuals, so trying to draw a parallel is an epic fail.

The public purpose of marriage is to bind spouses to each other AND to their children. Homosexuals cannot procreate with each other--EVER. Since the historic purpose for marriage has always been intrinsically connected to child-bearing and rearing, homosexuals really need to find a different word for whatever it is they want, because it's not marriage, and they have no right to redefine an institution that has existed since before the existence of the nation state.

oldandretired
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oldandretired 10/07/12 - 10:29 pm
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Marriage and the Christian

Marriage and the Christian Church fall hand in hand! We must remember that:

Humanity is created in the image and likeness of God. "It is not good that the man should be alone" (Genesis 2:18). For the Lord Himself is a pefect Communion of three Persons - The Father, Son and Holy Spirit - in one God. Therefore, "the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs," which "He made into a woman" and brought "to the man" (Genesis 2:21-22). It is for this reason that "a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh" Mark 10:7; Genesis 2:24). This great mystery of holy marriage signifies Christ Jesus, the incarnate Son of God, and His Bride, the Church. Divorce and all manner of adultry contradict and undermine this sign, and in doing so, they confess a false Christ and a false Gospel. "What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate" (Mark 10:9). In truth, Christ Jesus has atoned for all such sins, and He has perfected marriage in Himself "through suffering," that He might bring "many sons to glory" in His Resurection (Hebrews 2:8-10).

Now, those of you (that call yourselves Christians) who belittle the folks for their stance on this matter might do some deep thinking as to the inerrrancy of Gods Inspired Word which is found in the Word which we call Scripture or the Holy Bible !!!!!

Mr. Benson said, "We cannot continue to drive them from our churches and communities and see them later return ill, defeated, ruined, and without God." This is an absolutely correct statement. We are to invite them, with loving kindness, into our churches. They are, as we understand it, living in sin and should be helped to remove themselves from that lifestyle, and to as Christ said, "go and sin no more".

Just remember, when you go to the polls in November, vote YES on this constitutional ammendment!

ruthann
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ruthann 10/07/12 - 11:33 pm
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Marriage has existed since

Marriage has existed since "the beginning." It is a custom with a legal force and validity beyond any nation's laws.

It is as fundamental as all the men and women to whom it belongs---who from the ancient past to the present have preserved it by living it.

God is the Author of marrrige. A male and a female are its origin and its existence in practice.

For anyone else to appropriate, claim or change any part of the legacy is outright thievery. Marriage unites a man and a woman. Homosexual marriage would separate them. Let those who want such a drastic change find an appropriate name for their activity.

we were all created in his name
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we were all created in his name 10/08/12 - 01:33 am
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Ruthann

Please go back and read your Bible.
Consult your history texts.
Then, review the law in the state of MN and in the US.

Marriage existed in many different forms in the Bible. If you are advocating for a Biblical marriage, you must allow concubines, forced marriage of slaves, rape with "marriage" as the penalty, polygamy and the infamous "widow doesn't have a son, so her brother in law gets to 'lay with her' to impregnate her with her dead spouses' child." Yes, all of these are found in your Bible.

In the history of the world, marriage has existed in many forms, not only in Christian places, but in pagan, Buddhist, animist, atheist, Islamic etc. cultures. I'm not throwing stones at the Mormons, but their early church infamously advocated for polygamy and used religious texts and Divine inspiration to justify it. To claim that marriage has always meant "one thing" is to assume your world view is the only correct possibility in a world. History and anthropology prove you wrong.

In Europe, it was not solely for procreation and family stability, as Muel would have us believe, but it was also a form of commerce. Families sold their daughters to relieve debts or promote peace between warring clans or tribes. Teens were sold to wealthy old Dukes in exchange for land rights etc (even if the Duke was beyond the ability to conceive), and to relieve families of the burden of caring for spinster daughters. Marriage was the "consequence" for caught rapists in medieval Europe.

And, it wasn't limited to opposite-sex couples. Up beyond the 12th century, Yale University researcher John Boswell uncovered same-sex marriage rites in catholic church documents and church friezes (wall sculpture.)

http://www.unknowncountry.com/news/gay-marriage-nothing-new-catholic-church

I'm guessing that's something that isn't being discussed in all those mailings the church has been sending out.

You to God as being at the center of civil law. However, the MN marriage statutes do not reference God. There is no requirement that marriage applicants receive a blessing from God or any religious institution. The license is paid in cash, filed at the courthouse, and does not require any religious intervention whatsoever. Atheists can legally get married! So can people incapable of conceiving. If the state's purpose for marriage was based in religion or procreation, they would have required it in the statues.

Some suggest that the purpose for marriage is family stability. Absolutely. Since there are already thousands of gay families in Minnesota (according to the last census, there is at least one gay family in every single county in Minnesota), then wouldn't it make sense to provide their children with the same rights and protections as all families receive?

Why is it ok for church groups to sink $10 million into this fight, if their real concern is for struggling families? This is their priority?

The church can limit who it will offer the rite of holy matrimony, but this is separate from the civil marriage license. The two have been separate since marriage was codified into law in the US. Couples regularly bypassed churches entirely and went to justices of the peace to get married. If a Catholic wants to marry a Jew, for example, the Catholic church may not automatically do so unless the Jew converts, the couple undergoes church couseling, and/or they agree to raise their children in the Catholic faith. That is that church's right. Whether gays ever have the right to marry in MN will not change the church's right to limit or select who it marries one bit. Ask churches in Iowa if suddenly they are being forced to marry people they do not want to and the answer you will hear is NO. In fact, this was recently profiled in a Star Tribune article. Their take in Iowa? There was a big, expensive fuss, and in the end, allowing gay people to marry hasn't changed a thing.

Muel says that eugenics studies were at the root of Loving vs. Virginia, the famous Supreme Court case that struck down miscegenation (interracial marriage) laws. But Mildred Loving, the wife in that case, stated clearly

“Not a day goes by that I don’t think of Richard and our love, our right to marry, and how much it meant to me to have that freedom to marry the person precious to me, even if others thought he was the ’wrong kind of person’ for me to marry. I believe all Americans, no matter their race, no matter their sex, no matter their sexual orientation, should have that same freedom to marry. Government has no business imposing some people’s religious beliefs over others, especially if it denies people’s civil rights.”
[– the late Mildred Loving, speaking out for marriage equality on June 12, 2007, the 40th anniversary of the Loving v. Virginia announcement.]

There are over 400 churches that are coalition partners with MN United for All families. Ruthann, your statements suggest that you would like the law of the land to limit the religious freedom of churches who would marry gay people. Is it ok for one church's interpretation to overrule other churches' religious freedom? Because that will happen if this amendment passes.

I totally understand that people have deep and sincere religious beliefs, and I understand that they do not want to change. That is perfectly acceptable. Hold on to your beliefs, and worship how you see fit according to your faith.

But why is it that you want to limit how other people practice THEIR faith, in a church or a courthouse or a park, when it does not impact you? If your gay neighbors could get married, it wouldn't impact your marriage! And if your kids are straight, knowing that your gay neighbors could marry isn't going to change their marriages either!
Your kids are already going to school with gay kids, and you already see gay families in the community. What would change for you if they could get married? For that matter, alot of churches want to pin the degradation of society on gay couples seeking to get married. Is that really what's at the bottom of social angst? Really? Please explain how two people who promise to be with each other til death will send Massachusetts, or Iowa, or Canada, or Mexico or Minnesota crashing into the ocean?

If you don't like gays getting married, don't marry a gay person, and don't attend a gay wedding ceremony. Don't even send a gift. But why deny the civil rights and the promise to "love, honor and cherish the person you love until death do you part" for someone else? Especially if your only reasoning is that your religion is "more correct" than another religion with a different viewpoint.

we were all created in his name
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we were all created in his name 10/08/12 - 12:36 am
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P.s. for those of you

P.s. for those of you throwing around the "just have a civil union" idea, Minnesota does not offer civil unions. Gay couples have no legal rights. In fact, Gov. Pawlenty vetoed a bill that would have given them the right to pick up their dead spouses at the morgue. States that have civil unions are prone to political football -- meaning with each new political season their rights could change, some states grant all the rights of marriage, some only one or two rights, and some no rights. How'd you like the legal definition of your life partner changed every single time you cross the border? Before you type a smart reply, seriously think about that. How'd you like to cross the border and suddenly have no legal status to care for the person you've spent your life with. How'd you like to be declared "strangers under the law" in times of medical emergency or worse?

Sverre Johnson
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Sverre Johnson 10/08/12 - 06:39 am
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Take responsibility

Gay couple can take the same steps any other couple takes when they live together and are not married to safe guard themselves and their relationship. Go to an attorney and spell out your wishes, put it in writing. quit playing the victim.

David in Houston
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David in Houston 10/08/12 - 07:45 am
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Sigh... right back at you, sweetie

@ muehlbau: Polygamy was commonplace, even the United States. Before it was outlawed in 1899, people like Romney's grandfather and great-grandfather had multiple wives.
The point about the dowries was that women in this country were considered property when they got married. So promoting the idea that marriage has always been an equal partnership between two loving individuals is simply false. Marriage, as it is today, is a very new concept. In other words, marriage continues to change when societies become more enlightened.
People used the Bible to justify bans on interracial marriage. One judge said, "If God had wanted the races to mix, he wouldn't have put them on different continents." At one time, 30 out of 48 states had bans in place. When the Supreme Court nullified those bans (because they were discriminatory), 72% of the public still supported those bans. Was the Supreme Court right to disregard the "will of the people" even though the public wanted to enshrine bigotry in the law?
As for your comment regarding procreation, having children has NEVER been a requirement or obligation for straight couples. So why are you using theoretical children to discriminate against gay couples? Senior citizens, infertile couples, and those not wanting children, are ALL permitted to marry in our country. Neither the state or the government care if married couples EVER have children. Personally, I know two straight married couples that don't have children, and never want children. They have the right to define their relationship and their marriage however they see fit. But according to your philosophy, they shouldn't be married at all. Luckily, you don't make the secular laws in our country. Which reminds me, NON-religious straight couples get married every single day. So ANY religious argument used to disenfranchise gay couples is inherently invalid. If you aren't concerned about banning straight "heathens" from getting married, you can't use your chosen religious beliefs against gay couples. That would make you a hypocrite.
By the way, no one is "redefining marriage" for straight people. If gay couples can marry, straight men will still marry straight women. Using the word "redefine" is simply a flat-out lie. Expanding civil rights NEVER impacts those that already have those rights. Your marriage didn't suddenly change when gay couples were allowed to marry in Massachusetts eight years ago. When interracial couples were allowed to marry, that didn't "redefine" marriage for same-race couples, did it? When women were given the right to vote, that didn't "redefine" voting for men, did it?

Scribbles
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Scribbles 10/08/12 - 07:48 am
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John Clayton Nienstedt and Matthew Robert Birk...

Are Citizens and Free to Speak...

However, this is a gentle reminder...

terrybones
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terrybones 10/08/12 - 07:53 am
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When I think of

Traditions, like traditional marriage, I think of how things have been done in this country. I really don't care what they do or did in Europe or anywhere else, or what they used to do 1000 years ago. Marriage in the US has traditionally been a religious ceremony between one man and one woman. And that is how it should stay. If other people want civil unions, then fine. But I am voting to keep our current and traditional form of marriage.

terrybones
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terrybones 10/08/12 - 07:58 am
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Dave in Houston

Polygamy was not common. It occurred, and was known to happen, but was not common when compared to the population or the to the amount of one man/one woman marriages.

captron
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captron 10/08/12 - 08:26 am
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As long as the defintion of Legit Rape is not changed

The population of MO will continue be to safe .....

shoney
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shoney 10/08/12 - 08:45 am
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i am still voting no.........

I see no reason that people in conventional marriages feel threatened by letting people of the same sex get married. It does not affect their marriage, it does not change their marriage unless they let it. All of us should have the same rights to happiness and the government plus the church should not have a say in what people do. It does not matter if same sex couples can not procreate many of them are willing and glad to adopt the unwanted children that are waiting for a home and family .

I am still voting no for this amendment.

djmechanic
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djmechanic 10/08/12 - 10:02 am
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I was under the impression

I was under the impression that the purpose of a constitution, whether its Minnesota's or our nations constitution, is to protect the rights of the citizens. This proposed marriage ammendment would be the only ammendment to Minnesota's constitution to single out a specific group of people to deny a right to. Regardless of the outcome of the vote this November homosexuals will still not be able to be married in Minnesota. If this ammendment passes it will eliminate the possibility of a law passing to allow homosexuals to marry in this state.
I feel like we are going backwards, by trying to deny rights of a specific group of people when we should be protecting rights and not singling out and discriminating against people's rights in our constitution soley based on age, sex, race or sexual orientation.

twilight
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twilight 10/08/12 - 10:45 am
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Purposed

So you follow the entire chapter of Leviticus? Or do you cherry-pick? Don't be lazy now...read the whole chapter and let us know.

drinker
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drinker 10/08/12 - 01:36 pm
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Mark my words...

In our lifetime the US Supreme Court will take up this issue just as it has civil rights, segregation, voting rights etc... They will rule that this discriminates against individuals on the basis sexual orientation. By passing these laws and amendments to the states constitutions we are basing rights and benefits decisions that discriminate on a population of our fellow citizens that have been guaranteed in our constitution.

The first response to this will be that it is a sin or that the bible says that this is not right. You can blow your religious argument out your ear, because the religious argument has zero place in this debate. This is not about what your religion desires us to follow it is about the rights of individuals that have been guaranteed by the constitution.

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ruthann 10/08/12 - 02:55 pm
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In reply to: We were all created in His name.

Since you obviously believe in God---let me correct that. "God created man in His Image and Likeness." He created Adam and then created Eve as a companion. Man and woman carry on His work by procreating---not to populate earth but to populate God's heaven. Our purpose for being born on earth is to live according to God's Will that we might be with Him in heaven.

What is your point in answering a post if you ignore what is said in the post?

I said, "Marriage is as fundamental as all the men and women to whom it belongs." I suggest you look up the word "fundamental." Man and woman are "fundamental"---the essential components in marriage. Anything that isn't fundamental" is not marriage---it is a deviation from marriage
---an imitation of marriage. That includes all the deviations you mentioned in your post. Calling them "marriage" doesn't make them marriage---they're deviations---perversions of marriage.

I wrote," Marriage is a custom with a legal force and validity beyond any nation's laws." An ancient custom before there were any nations. That means it is a law unto itself---no one has the right to change it. It does not belong to any nation---it is not subject to any other laws. So why do you tell me to read Minnesota's laws which don't apply?

You said, "Go back and read your Bible." Read my first post again. I didn't mention the Bible. I did quote from the Bible this time to correct your statement that ---"we were all created in his name."

Scribbles
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Scribbles 10/08/12 - 05:10 pm
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Ruthann...Just checking...

The Almighty does wondrous things...
Which includes...Allowing the United States of America to exist...And allowing the Founding Fathers to guide a path to a Free and Great Nation...To allow civil discourse, discussions, and adoption over time of unequal and not majority selection items...

This unequal amendment has come to the here and now...

Your comments reflect your views, but not all citizens views...
And that is Freedom of Expression...

To deny, limit, restrict, choose your verb, adverb, etc, is an unwise selection of terminology...

Just because you believe a certain way, is not the right way to guide any of the Citizens of the United States of American...

You're not being scolded...
You're being reminded, you are a citizen of equal rights as the next citizen...

Paul Gazelka and Warren Limmer decided to bring this Civil Right issue to the here and now...

And the here and now is an Amendment...
Voters of Minnesota will have a say, but there is another authority, who decides the Law of the Land.

The United States Supreme Court...
A cherished and reversed institution of thought and process...
It's slow, but very, very, very careful in it's process...
Because that institution, affects generations to come...

Do a gut check Ruthann...
Travel all of Minnesota...
Get a real course in Civics as to all Minnesotans Lives...

And yes, this is my opinion...
The Almighty Doesn't Make Mistakes...
The Almighty let's us discover our mistakes...
Let's not make sure this Amendment is a Mistake...

hopefloats52
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hopefloats52 10/08/12 - 07:16 pm
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GAY MARRIAGES

I Corinthians 6:9....Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the Kingdom of God. So since it states in the Bible that homosexual offenders do not inherit the Kingdom of God....why would God "make" people gay and then say they can't get into heaven? That theory doesn't even make any sense!

V6:12.....is on sexual immorality.The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for our body. Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ & unite them with a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute becomes one? For it is said: The two shall become one flesh.

V18: Flee from sexual immorality.

V7:2 states since there is so much sexual immorality each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.

If being gay was accepted by God why then did God make woman for man in the beginning? Why didn't God make another man for Adam? Because God does not intend for man to have sex with another man.

twilight
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twilight 10/08/12 - 07:36 pm
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Hope doesn't float

That preaching belongs in your church, not in the Minnesota Constitution.

muehlbau
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muehlbau 10/08/12 - 07:58 pm
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Redefining marriage to remove gender requirements...

...belongs in YOUR church, NOT in public square. The only interest the public has in marriage is when the marriage relationship results in children--it has no interest in love or in friendships.

I accept your right to allow gay marriage within your faith tradition, but I reject your claim that I and all other citizens should have to share that belief (which is what redefining the legal definition of marriage does).

Scribbles
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Scribbles 10/08/12 - 08:23 pm
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Muehl...Lemme use a image analogy...

The United States...has evolved...

Same basic elements, and an improvement...

The United States Improves...Especially in Civil and Equal Rights for All our Citizens...

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dvranish 10/08/12 - 08:34 pm
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Here we go again

The homosexuals think that it is about simple marriage and the hetrosexuals think it is about filth. Simple marriage it is not. There are legal items like health insurance for their filthy life styles that some employer is forced to pay for. These [filtered word]'s have given us aids. Isn't that enough? Aids, I believe was god's answer to exterminate these filthy creatures. Just think people, maybe next year it will be some male or female that wants to marry their dog or perhaps group marriages because they love all their friends! The arguments will be the same.

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verita_e_pace 10/08/12 - 08:51 pm
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This is our Constitution!

This is about protecting the rights of all people in our state. This is about respecting God's children--all of them. This is about looking at a human being and seeing who he or she is. This is about stopping once and for all the intense bullying that gay children receive from other children taught by their parents to hate. This is about saying that Minnesota respects all people--even those who are not like us. No heterosexual person is asked to state on a form who they have sex with--he or she can just say "married." If this becomes law, a homosexual person will have to identify his or her sexual preference to get partner benefits. Why would we ask a gay person to do that? Marriage is a word...just a word. Love, commitment, compassion, understanding, sharing, and caring make a partnership- Sex is only one aspect of a human being and one aspect of a union. To deny anyone anything solely on the basis of sex is incomprehensible.

verita_e_pace
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verita_e_pace 10/08/12 - 08:51 pm
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This is our Constitution!

This is about protecting the rights of all people in our state. This is about respecting God's children--all of them. This is about looking at a human being and seeing who he or she is. This is about stopping once and for all the intense bullying that gay children receive from other children taught by their parents to hate. This is about saying that Minnesota respects all people--even those who are not like us. No heterosexual person is asked to state on a form who they have sex with--he or she can just say "married." If this becomes law, a homosexual person will have to identify his or her sexual preference to get partner benefits. Why would we ask a gay person to do that? Marriage is a word...just a word. Love, commitment, compassion, understanding, sharing, and caring make a partnership- Sex is only one aspect of a human being and one aspect of a union. To deny anyone anything solely on the basis of sex is incomprehensible.

verita_e_pace
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verita_e_pace 10/08/12 - 08:51 pm
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This is our Constitution!

This is about protecting the rights of all people in our state. This is about respecting God's children--all of them. This is about looking at a human being and seeing who he or she is. This is about stopping once and for all the intense bullying that gay children receive from other children taught by their parents to hate. This is about saying that Minnesota respects all people--even those who are not like us. No heterosexual person is asked to state on a form who they have sex with--he or she can just say "married." If this becomes law, a homosexual person will have to identify his or her sexual preference to get partner benefits. Why would we ask a gay person to do that? Marriage is a word...just a word. Love, commitment, compassion, understanding, sharing, and caring make a partnership- Sex is only one aspect of a human being and one aspect of a union. To deny anyone anything solely on the basis of sex is incomprehensible.

verita_e_pace
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verita_e_pace 10/08/12 - 08:51 pm
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This is our Constitution!

This is about protecting the rights of all people in our state. This is about respecting God's children--all of them. This is about looking at a human being and seeing who he or she is. This is about stopping once and for all the intense bullying that gay children receive from other children taught by their parents to hate. This is about saying that Minnesota respects all people--even those who are not like us. No heterosexual person is asked to state on a form who they have sex with--he or she can just say "married." If this becomes law, a homosexual person will have to identify his or her sexual preference to get partner benefits. Why would we ask a gay person to do that? Marriage is a word...just a word. Love, commitment, compassion, understanding, sharing, and caring make a partnership- Sex is only one aspect of a human being and one aspect of a union. To deny anyone anything solely on the basis of sex is incomprehensible.

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muehlbau 10/08/12 - 09:26 pm
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This is about SPAM, verita...

...it is not unjust to treat different things...differently. In fact, that's just and fair. No matter how many times you close your eyes and click your heals, homosexual relationships can never take the place of natural marriage. They are not the same. They are sterile. And this has nothing to do with disliking homosexuals or wanting to make them second class citizens. It has to do with REALITY, and understanding that their relationships can NEVER serve the critical purpose that authentic marriages do in terms of regenerating our population and creating a stable and healthy culture. Kids need a mom and a dad, period.

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