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Meth - a pervasive problem

Family fractured by addiction

Posted: February 17, 2013 - 10:33pm
Sarah Nelson Katzenberger Married couple Joe LaRoue (left) and Camille Lartigue discuss their 20 year battle with meth. Joe has been sober for four years. Camille for two.
Sarah Nelson Katzenberger Married couple Joe LaRoue (left) and Camille Lartigue discuss their 20 year battle with meth. Joe has been sober for four years. Camille for two.

While methamphetamine use in Crow Wing County appears to be on the rise, it isn’t only area law enforcement that is seeing an increase in activity.

Crow Wing County Children and Family Services Supervisor Lynda Erickson said the number of calls social services receives related to meth use is also on the rise.

Crow Wing County Social Services started tracking calls regarding children who may be exposed to meth in October 2007. Major crackdowns were evident as numbers dropped off in 2008 but during the past five years the numbers have steadily crept back up. Erickson said of the 12 calls received on average each day, one is regarding a child who may be exposed to meth in the home. In 2012, the county received 199 calls about meth use and that number is still climbing.

“I couldn’t say this about any other drug — that we’re getting one call a day.” Erickson said. “There’s nothing that’s ever been quite as prevalent as this.”

When meth use started showing up in Minnesota about a decade ago, Erickson said county social services was forced to face something it had never dealt with before. “We had situations where parents were into meth really early on, before we even knew what it was,” she said. “Now the number is so high that it’s a lot to try to intervene with.”

Erickson said meth use in the county isn’t only about the user. The smallest victims are held hostage by the drug and are too young to even understand what is happening around them.

Young children face the risk of ingesting meth.

“Children put everything in their mouths,” Erickson said. “We hardly ever see an older kid test positive for meth.”

When children and family services receives a call regarding a child who may be in danger of exposure to meth, Erickson said, like any other call, they run through a series of guidelines before making contact.

“If a call meets the screening guidelines then we’re knocking on doors offering services,” she said.

If it is suspected a child might be ingesting meth, Erickson said the county uses a hair follicle test to determine if there are any molecules of the drug embedded in the child’s hair follicle.

While a child’s physical exposure to meth is a top concern, the county also addresses other issues associated with a parents’ meth use.

Erickson said abuse is not typically the concern when it comes to dealing with exposure to meth in a home. Neglect is a much bigger issue. “It’s hard to take care of someone else when you’re a meth user,” Erickson said.

Neglect comes in the form of lack of food, lack of heat, lack of or inadequate shelter, medical neglect and in many cases truancy. “Meth costs money so often times those other things get left behind,” Erickson said.

While it is the duty of children and family services to remove a child from an unhealthy home situation, Erickson said the goal of social services is always to reunite. “If a parent loses a child because of meth it doesn’t have to be permanent,” she said. “We are here to give people a chance.”

Joe LaRoue and Camille Lartigue battled with their addiction to meth for nearly two decades. LaRoue said their addiction started with cocaine. After losing their apartment and finding themselves nearly broke and unable to afford their habit, they moved to Minnesota to be closer to family.

“We found meth up here,” he said.

“It’s part of the progression of being an addict,” said Lartigue of the jump from cocaine to meth. “It took us all the way down.”

The pair, who has been married for 15 years, had four children together and LaRoue said they would do their best to stay sober through each pregnancy.

After spending a few years in Minnesota, the couple moved back to Texas with their four children. LaRoue said the move was a chance to start over. They were given a new home, a new vehicle, LaRoue was working a good job. “We had everything going for us, but we couldn’t stay clean,” he said.

“We quickly found ourselves involved with child protection,” Lartigue said. “(We) ended up losing all four of our children.”

LaRoue said losing their children should have been a breaking point for their battle with addiction, but it wasn’t.

“We still couldn’t stay clean,” he said.

Erickson said while the goal of social services is to reunite a family, sometimes it’s just not possible. Minnesota law says once children have been taken from their parents due to an issue within the home, the parents have a year to correct the problem and the children are reunited, or permanent custody is given to a relative or, in the worst-case scenario, the parents’ rights may be terminated.

LaRoue and Lartigue found themselves faced with the heart-breaking decision to give up their parental rights. LaRoue said the two failed a hair-follicle test and were given the option to sign over their children or have the state terminate their rights.

“That way if I ever had another child I’d be able to keep it or at least fight for it,” Lartigue said. Three years later, the couple had their fifth child, a baby girl named, Gabby.

Lartigue called their experience “a dirty life” saying they went from snorting their meth and using it just on the weekends to using intravenously and eventually manufacturing.

Faced with homelessness the two moved back to Minnesota where LaRoue was caught manufacturing in Morrison County. After spending a year in jail, LaRoue was released to do a treatment program through Central Minnesota Teen Challenge in Brainerd. He’s been sober for nearly four years now.

After completing his program, LaRoue won custody of the couple’s then 5-year-old daughter Gabby and Lartigue continued to use. “It was horrible,” Lartigue said of losing her fifth child, this time to her husband. “I was pretty desperate. I went on another binge of whatever I could get my hands on. But he had pretty much closed all those doors — money, he knew where I was going, I couldn’t get anything. I wanted to take him down and I couldn’t.”

Desperate enough to seek help Lartigue also checked into Minnesota Adult and Teen Challenge in the Twin Cities. This year she celebrates two years of sobriety.

“It’s such a horrible dark life,” Lartigue said of her struggle with addiction. “It’s so hard on the kids.”

Lartigue said after completing Teen Challenge, she volunteered her time for the program writing thank you notes to donors. “I was scared to leave,” she said. “I never had any length of clean time. I never had any freedom. I never had found forgiveness for myself for what I had done to my children. That’s what Teen Challenge had provided for me.”

Lartigue now works for Teen Challenge full time with the program’s out-patient service. “I really love coming to work now,” she said.

LaRoue also works in Brainerd as a mechanic.

Lartigue said she was in treatment at least six times before finally finding freedom through her experience at Teen Challenge. “I really don’t think I could have done it any other way,” she said.

Crow Wing County Adult Services Supervisor Tammy Lueck said recovery often looks like Lartigue’s and LaRoue’s experience — it’s ongoing.

“Recovery is lifelong,” she said. “Sometimes these people do have relapses, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t go back and get help and work on those supports again.”

The county’s concern is to help users identify their problem and their need for help. “It really is a problem,” Erickson added. “But there really is help.”

For LaRoue and Lartigue, their story didn’t end the day they lost their children. It took them 10 years to find freedom from their addiction, but they have found it.

Last May, they were reunited for the first time with the four children they lost.

“It was emotional,” Lartigue said of the reunion. The four kids were adopted into two separate homes and the reunion was their first time being together since being taken from their parents. “There was a lot of staring and smiling,” Lartigue said.

The couple continues to stay involved with Teen Challenge and the church community at Faith Baptist in Brainerd. “We’re firm believers in freedom in the Lord,” Lartigue said. “Life is really good today — the blessings in our life are tremendous.”

LaRoue and Lartigue said their life now is engulfed in recovery and helping others find freedom from their own addictions. “This is pretty much all we do,” Lartigue said. “It’s a good life.”

SARAH NELSON KATZENBERGER may be reached at sarah.nelsonkatzenberger@brainerddispatch.com or 855-5879.

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Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/17/13 - 11:46 pm
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Good Luck to You.

You do deserve it.

The Dude
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The Dude 02/18/13 - 09:17 am
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Wow FAD

Whats this a word of encouragement. You really can be a nice guy. My faith in humanity has been restored.

motleylarry
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motleylarry 02/18/13 - 09:23 am
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Good work on trying to quit,

Good work on trying to quit, its too bad you were able to bring kids into this world so they were exposed. I say good job to fnb and myself for not being so weak as to turn to a mind altering drug.

star1
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star1 02/18/13 - 09:40 am
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This is a very real story of

This is a very real story of the battle people face in addiction and unfortunately far more often the out come isn't as wonderful. Congrats to both of you for continuing to fight the battle of sobriety and helping others out along the way.

One concern I have is that Crow Wing County readily admits Meth use is worsening and the calls to Child Protection are prevalent. Child Protection admits there are neglect concerns of parents who use. Yet if you talk with social services their main focus for maintaining their budget is to cut out of home placement costs. Are these children being removed until the parents get the help they need? Seems it would be difficult to reduce costs of out of home placement for children that are exposed to Meth when the issue is on the rise. Just doesn’t seem like their budget cut to placing children in safe homes is in line with what their mission is of keeping children safe.

motleylarry
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motleylarry 02/18/13 - 10:17 am
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What bothers me about meth

What bothers me about meth addicted people, is that they are allowed to have as many kids as they want. Is that a sacred cow we can't talk about? Lets get real about bringing addicted babies into this world.

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/18/13 - 10:26 am
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Not trying to start

a fight here but, is someone else using motleylarry's identity to post on here? He isn't the same person I used to trade jabs with.

OldFarmBoy
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OldFarmBoy 02/18/13 - 10:43 am
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F&B

I was thinking I was in need of new glasses or something myself.

BTW what happened to grampatax??

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/18/13 - 11:00 am
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He must have said

something nasty to southie because nobody gets the boot for talking nasty to me.

Photos7
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Photos7 02/18/13 - 01:18 pm
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The Cost

The cost of Meth and other controlled substance costs all of us. Many of the people addicted to Meth and other drugs resort to theft, buglary and other crimes to support the habit. This cost is passed on to all of us directly or indirectly. Cost of home insurance, car insurance and medical all are affected by the folks that are using. These cost are ours and will be passed on to future generations. Lets not forget the cost of law enforcement, incarceration, rehab, unemployment and other benefits they maybe entitled to. The lives lost, familys broken up and people with bright futures dashed due to addition. Maybe its time to administer an inexpensive drug test before certain benefits are paid. Three things may happen, They would quit drugs, Not receive payments or they would supplement their habit with other means.
Thanks to the Dispatch for running this series

motleylarry
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motleylarry 02/18/13 - 05:34 pm
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fnb

I just got out from open heart sugery,don't know what happened. I think I went to the other side, and saw the truth.

nqd fan
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nqd fan 02/18/13 - 06:04 pm
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star1, you clearly see the

star1, you clearly see the problem. Maybe your county commissioner should hear from you. The County Board is the entity behind the big push to cut the budget. They see a big line item, and think that is the answer to cutting the budget.

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/18/13 - 06:33 pm
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Holy crud Larry,

I'm sorry you had trouble and hope all will be well for you now.
You do know I never really hated you I hope.
Are you still in Florida?

motleylarry
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motleylarry 02/18/13 - 06:57 pm
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I am, thanks for asking. I

I am, thanks for asking. I live the majority of the year here.

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/18/13 - 07:13 pm
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Ahhhh,

yesterday I would have had a nasty comeback for that...........
Today, I say get well and let me know when you're coming back. I'll buy you a drink at Bar Harbor or Nisswa if I'm around.

hein1ric
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hein1ric 02/18/13 - 07:15 pm
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Motley

Sounds like things went OK. That's great!
Just a joke-but I heard about someone that had a heart replacement. He had three choices on which one he wanted. He took the one from a lawyer 'cause it had never been used.

OldFarmBoy
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OldFarmBoy 02/18/13 - 09:00 pm
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Holy Cow Larry

I hope everything is good for you!! My wife keeps telling me I will never have one of those H attack's cause ya have to have a heart 1st. Take Care.

Hein. Me was thinking you & cappy flew out today.

Fair n Balanced
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Fair n Balanced 02/18/13 - 10:21 pm
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Was heinie

driving the jeep and smoking a doobie with Lil'Cappy when he fell out?

star1
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star1 02/19/13 - 09:33 am
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Chit Chat

The little side conversation not related to the article it really irritating.

nqd fan- Thanks for the suggestion. I will be contacting my county commissioner.

motleylarry
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motleylarry 02/19/13 - 10:07 am
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fnb

you are irritating chit chat, now be nice.

Chandellia
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Chandellia 02/21/13 - 09:48 pm
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Meth and Crow Wing County Social Services

While I agree that meth is a problem in every county in the state I have to disagree with the statement about Social services offering the children of these adicted parents to family members. I am the grandmother of a child in Crow Wing county. Ive never done drugs of any sort and I was good enough to do there foster care and foster care for another county also. When they removed my grandson from his parents I had to jump thru hoops and they still wouldnt allow me custody of my grandson because I was interested in reuniting him with my daughter when/if she got clean. I refused to tell them I would cut off all contact with my daughter for the life of the grand child. I agreed that my daughter would never be around the child when she was high but that wasnt enough for them. They pushed at every hearing to keep my grandson with the foster family who was actually seeking to adopt a baby. Guess where my grandson lives today? He lives with the foster family who is in the process of adopting. So Im good enough to take care of the children of strangers but not good enough in the eyes of Crow Wing County Social Services to raise my own grandchild. Isnt that a hoot!!!

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